I know you think now that getting/ making XYZ happen will fix you and your life.
But you know what? IT WON’T. Doesn’t matter what that is, it won’t fix the situation.
I did it so, so, so many times. I confused fixes with my desires. I was once praying to God to un-dead someone I loved so much. I was thinking I will never be happy with that person in my life. The person is still dead now, years later. And I let them rest in peace. I was wrong.
Manifesting fixes is about struggling
Let me share with you just two of the countless examples when I was trying to force the fix, the change in 3D that will fix my life.
# I wanted to go to this reputable high school. And I got in. I wanted to show everyone how good I am. But I only ended up not having friends in my new school. My real desire? Being appreciated and valued. And having friends. Getting into that specific high school didn’t give me that.
# I wanted my partner to go with me to a company party. But he couldn’t due to other obligations at this time. Still, this party thing was sooo important to me! I was mobbed at that work and I wanted to feel safe. GOD! I wanted to never go to work there again. Me trying to drag my partner to that party caused a lot of dramaโฆ and no change to my work situation. My real desire? New jobโฆ and again being appreciated, valued, and surrounded by friends.
You’ll have a crappy life as long as you won’t realize what is that you truly want.
My desire to play a role in others’ lives was begging for my attention for many years. The two situations from my example are more than 10 years apart. They both have a source in the same unfulfilled desire, that was trying to get my attention. What I call situations like that in this article are “whims”, not a desire, but very specific ideas that we want that are telling us about the desires.
The thing is no one wakes up at night realizing things like “I desire to play a significant role in a community”. No one. We are realizing those things during therapy or while on a conscious manifesting path.
Your true desires are always about you.
What does it mean that your true desires are about you? It means they call you to take a new role/ identity/ state and life differently. When you want more money it’s not about numbers on your account, but about living a different lifestyle.
We have desires, we have whims and we haveโฆ ideas for fixes.
Our desires need awareness. Our whims tell us about our desires and guide us to them. Ideas for the fixes are the weapons we use to quiet both, desires and whims.
We were all raised to live in 3D, react to it and act accordingly. The tomato soup is blunt? Ok, let’s put some salt and extra pepper to it.
๐ฌ๐ผ๐ ๐ต๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐๐๐ผ๐ฝ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ถ๐ ๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐บ ๐น๐ถ๐ณ๐ฒ.
What does a conscious manifestor ask about when the tomato soup is blunt?:
Do I even like tomato soup?
Am I even hungry?
What do I want to it today?
You don’t react. You create. You were born to bring change to this world by manifesting your desires. Because your desires aren’t just desires, they’re leads from God.
You’re going to get nowhere only trying to manifest fixes and ignoring your true desires. You can have some fun with that, making people say specific things, being gifted things you want, and so on. But it will be a distraction only. And in many cases, you’ll have the hardest time trying to manifest those.
Why it will be so hard? It will be the Universe shouting at you you’re on the wrong path.
What is the desire you’re trying to suppress now instead of manifesting it?